How Any Business Owner Can Rebuild the Strong Muscular Body You Once Had—Even If You’re Over 40, Busy as Hell, and Feel Like It's Too Late

Feb 18, 2025By adam zomparelli

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If you read towards the end, you will learn the simple yet effective way to start getting results for your health and fitness.

And if you don’t want to read the 2000-word article, then I would say your low tolerance for patience has cost you yet some more results.

If you're a man over 40, chances are you've felt it—the slow decline, the creeping exhaustion, the way your body doesn’t respond the way it used to.

Maybe it started with a little extra weight around your midsection, or maybe you noticed that your arms and chest don’t fill out your shirts like they once did.

You used to feel strong, confident, and in control, but now?
It wasn't that long ago that people looked to you for your physique and work ethic.

Now you feel like you’re just getting by.

You tell yourself you’ve been busy—work, family, life.

But deep down, you know that’s not the real reason.

Somewhere along the way, you stopped prioritizing your health.

You started putting everything else first, and now, you barely recognize the man staring back at you in the mirror.

Your energy, for the most part recently is feeling low.

You drag yourself through the day, relying on caffeine and sheer willpower just to keep up.

You avoid taking your shirt off at the pool or gym because you don’t want to face what’s happened to your body.

You’ve tried diets, workout plans, and maybe even hired a trainer before, but nothing has worked long-term.

Every time you try to get back in shape, life gets in the way.

Work demands your time, stress wears you down, and sooner or later, you’re right back where you started—frustrated, tired, and stuck.

The worst part? You mentally feel like a powerhouse but your body and energy don’t reflect it.

And THAT itself is starting to affect you.

That strength, that presence, that edge you used to have—it just….isn’t there like it used to be. You feel like you can’t summon it so easily anymore.

And you know within yourself that needs to stop from happening.

Whenever there is a problem within your business you diffuse it effectively and efficiently.

But you haven’t been taking the same approach with your health and physique.

Why You Keep Failing—And Why Nothing Has Worked So Far

It’s not for lack of trying. You’ve put in the effort.

You’ve hit the gym, tried cutting carbs, followed different workout programs… but the results never last. And here’s why.

First, you’re trying to train the way you did in your 20s—long, grueling workouts, heavy lifts, and endless cardio.

But your body isn’t the same, and neither is your lifestyle.
You have responsibilities, a career, and maybe even a family.

You don’t have the luxury of spending two hours in the gym five days a week.
What worked back then necessarily isn’t going to work now.

Second, you’re jumping from one fitness trend to another.

One month it’s keto, the next it’s fasting, then HIIT, then some YouTube workout plan.

But none of them are designed for you—a busy dude who needs an efficient, structured plan tailored to his lifestyle.

Instead of following a system that works, you’re stuck in a cycle of guesswork and frustration.

And then there’s the biggest mistake of all—you’re trying to do this alone.
You’re a high performer in your career because you’ve mastered delegation, strategy, and execution.

But when it comes to fitness, you think you can piece it together yourself. The problem is, that without accountability, structure, and a clear roadmap, you’ll always fall off track when life gets busy.

The truth is, getting older doesn’t mean getting weaker.

It doesn’t mean losing muscle, gaining fat, or feeling drained all the time.
That only happens when you don’t have a plan designed for where you are in life right now.

What Life Could Look Like If You Took Control Today


Now imagine waking up and feeling strong. Not just in the gym, but in life.
You throw on a fitted shirt, and it hugs your chest and shoulders the way it used to.

You walk into a room and command respect—not just because of what you’ve accomplished in your career, but because of the way you carry yourself.
You feel it in your handshake, the way people look at you, and the way you look at yourself.

Your energy is different. You wake up ready to attack the day, not dragging yourself out of bed.

You move with power, confidence, and a quiet certainty that you’ve got this. You don’t avoid the mirror anymore. You don’t hesitate when someone pulls out a camera.

You KNOW you look good.

You know you’ve built something that can’t be ignored.

And it’s not just about looking strong—it’s about being strong.

It’s about showing up at work sharper, leading your family with confidence, and knowing you have complete control over your body, mind, and life.


That’s not just a dream. That’s your reality—if you take the right steps.

Here’s How You Get There—Without Wasting Time on More Trial and Error


Most fitness advice out there isn’t built for you. It’s either designed for 20-year-old guys with endless free time or for people who have no idea what real results look like.


If you want to rebuild your body, reclaim your energy, and finally break free from the cycle of frustration, here’s what works:


1. Optimize Your Nutrition for Fat Loss and Muscle Growth


Diets don’t always work because you are not creating a sustainable one.


You don’t need to cut out carbs, starve yourself, or eat like a bodybuilder.


What you need is a structured nutrition plan that fits your life and helps you burn fat while building lean muscle.


That means:
• Eating high-protein meals that support muscle recovery.
• Learning how to structure your meals so you’re never hungry or deprived.
• Knowing exactly how to enjoy food without sabotaging progress.


Calculate your calories over a week and average it out by 7 days and then take that number and stay under it by 300 to 500 calories for weight loss.
Make sure to stay around a
Protein – 60%
Carbs – 20%
Fats – 20%


For your macros. If you move them around that’s fine too.
If you are keto then they definitely won't look like this and would have to have carbs dropped to 5% to 7% with higher fats and protein.

2. Train Smarter, Not Harder (3-4x Per Week, 45 Minutes Max)

You don’t need to spend hours in the gym. You need an efficient strength-based program that helps you build muscle, drop fat, and boost energy—without wasting time.

Short, intense, high-impact workouts will get you stronger and leaner faster than any cardio-heavy routine ever will.

Weight training 3x a week with paired muscle groups of your choosing.
Then always do a superset with each exercise. An example can be pushups and then do pullups right after.

If you are doing a dumbbell bench press to a seated wide back row. Have fun with it.

Aim for 12+ repetitions.

There is no such thing as a rep range you have to stay within, that was created just to give people a guideline but you can do whatever you like.

Just make sure to control and have intensity when doing weight lifting.

Aim for 3 sets and you generally don’t need to do more than that.

I only ever had clients do 4+ sets if they were volume training to bring up a body part but other than that, it’s the quality of your reps through static training methods or your tempo decreases that will count for building muscle. Quality of quantity.

3. Track Your Progress—Because What Gets Measured, Gets Managed

If you’re not tracking, you’re guessing. And guessing doesn’t get results.

Instead of just “working out,” you need a clear system to measure your progress so you always know if you’re improving.

Write everything down or track it on your phone.

I have all my clients put everything down on my app they have to use when they sign on with me, no questions asked. It's easy to follow and understand and everything is in one place.

Their workouts, their nutrition and tasks for the day, everything.

And you should be doing this too. Track it all. How would you react if you went into your business and everything was disorganized? You wouldn’t have it as you are an organized person yourself.

4. Build Fitness Into Your Life, Not the Other Way Around

You’re busy. You travel. You have work commitments.

That’s why your plan needs to adapt to your lifestyle.

The best fitness strategy is the one you can stick to—without sacrificing your success in other areas of life.

Having a program that’s easy to follow and already fitted to what you need is crucial.

All my clients are high performers and rely on a regimented plan that they can access and just follow.

How many times are you in a hotel and you have half an hour to work out?
Probably a lot.

You need to be ready to move and it is done as you don’t have the luxury to give yourself another 10 minutes or more.

It’s why my clients again, just open my app and plug away at their workout.
If you aren’t keeping yourself organized you are losing out on time and that is THE ONE currency we cannot get back.

5. Surround Yourself with Men Who Hold You to a Higher Standard

I’m going to say an unpopular opinion here but it’s just from my own observation from training high performance and driven mindset males.

You have the biggest goldmine of resources with the people you surround yourself with but let your ego get in the way when it comes to being able to be accountable for your health and fitness.

It’s a double-edged sword. And it’s causing you results.

You have been able to do everything on your own and you can with this as well, but you need to start taking a different approach if what you are doing isn’t working for you.

If you want to be strong, successful, and in peak shape, you can’t do it alone.
High performers know that accountability is the ultimate game-changer.

Surrounding yourself with other men who push you forward will keep you consistent and committed—long after motivation fades.

Put yourself with other high achievers who have the physique, mindset, and just upper-level that you don’t have yet.

Don’t let your ego keep you from leveling up.

The Real Cost of Doing Nothing

Here’s the part nobody wants to admit.
If you keep doing what you’re doing, nothing will change.

Five years from now, you’ll look back and wish you started today.
Your muscles will keep fading. Your gut will keep growing.

Your energy will keep dropping. Your confidence will keep shrinking.
And the worst part? You’ll know that you could have changed it—but didn’t.

Because the truth is, you have two choices.

You can keep telling yourself you’ll “start next week,” and wake up a year from now feeling even worse.

Or you can make the one decision that changes everything—starting today.
The best time to rebuild your body, your confidence, and your masculinity? Years ago.

The second-best time? Right now.

And the crazy thing is you know you have the power to do it.
Look what You have personally built in your life.

Would the younger you who built the business you have now have let you get away with the attitude you have towards fitness while building your business?
I don’t think so.

So, it’s time to treat your physique the same.
The choice is yours.

So when you're ready, And I think you are.

Let's get On a call to see the personalized plan we will build for you.
We only move forward, never backward.

We only create results, not excuses.

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